Meditate-meditate-meditate

The following excerpts come from around sept to oct 2000 of the Chopra Forum. Well worth a lookie if you have the time to go through the 54,000 messages or so ... :)

Update Feb 2006 - that forum has moved to here


A wealthy Merchant skeptically asked, "Where is your God? How can I meet him? What can you tell me about him?" The Master being questioned sat up and became very alert, yet remained silent. After a moment he closed his eyes. A few moments went by. The Merchant waited curiously. Expectantly.

Was he attempting to contact God? Was he about to channel the Spirits? What trickery was he up to? A few minutes more went by. A great ecstacy bathed the face of the Master. A tranquility was vibrant in his silence. But to the Merchant it was thick, hollow and very long. He became restless and impatient for his answer. He muttered, "this is nonsense".

He paced a little hoping his agitation would hurry the Master. But the Master remained still and silent. "What are you doing!? I asked you a question", grumbled the Merchant. "Answer it!"

The Master replied, "That's what I was doing. This is my answer."

But the merchant was not impressed. He wanted some answers. He wanted some proof. He insisted the Master had to answer the question. The Master says, "Okay".

With his finger he writes in the sand: Meditation.

The Merchant looks at the word and then at the Master. "I ask you about God and you write 'meditation'? Is this some kind of joke? It's totally irrelevant!"

The Master replies, "That's all I can say or am allowed to say. You are asking about the goal, I talk about the Way. The goal is incomprehensible and so mysterious, that nothing can be said about it. If you have eyes to see, see! if you have ears to hear, hear! Hear my silence and the song that my silence is, and the music that arises in it. If you cannot hear it, that simply shows that you need meditation. So meditate."

The Merchant skeptically blurts, "That's it? One word? Meditate? Couldn't you at least elaborate a little?"

The Master wrote again in bigger letters: Meditation.

"That's hardly elaboration is it?" complained the Merchant. "Repeating yourself or writing it bigger isn't much of an elaboration!"

And the Master wrote again in bigger letters: MEDITATION. He said, "Nothing more can be said about it. You will have to do it. You will have to be it. It is the only way to know the unknowable."

"But I have tried all this nonsense", complained the Merchant. "I have meditated."

"No, you have not", replied the Master. "You have fooled yourself with belief. You have created a model of the world which you believe to be real. But you are asleep and you are dreaming, and the model is ever changing to support your slumber. This is what you cling to. You haggle for the things you believe. And you believe that you have meditated when you have only imitated. You do not want to wake up."

"What makes you so perceptive about my experience?" Sneered the Merchant, sarcastically.

"Simply that you live as before, with the same thoughts, with the same habits, the same diet, the same attitude, the same desires, the same pleasures and the same pain. If you had awoken things would have utterly changed."


Sri Aurobindo was asked by a philosopher, "Do you believe in God?" and he replied "No." The philosopher was, for a moment, shocked. He had come a long way, believing that this man had come to know God, and this man says, "I don't believe in God." For a moment he could not gather the courage to ask anything alse. The he said, "But I thought that you had seen God."

Sri Aurobindo laughed and said, "Yes, I have seen, that is why I say I don't believe. 'Belief' is out of ignorance. I know! I don't 'believe'."

And remember it: you have to know, you are not here to believe. My help is available for you to know. Belief is a trick of the mind. Without knowing, it gives you the feeling that you have known.

~ Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh.

More thoughts along these lines ...



"To consider that after the death of the body the spirit perishes is like imagining that a bird in a cage will be destroyed if the cage is broken. Our body is like the cage and the spirit like the bird. Though the body dies, the spirit continues to exist in a new condition without the physical limitations of this world."

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"It does not matter what words you use, what remains is that unless you know and embrace, the great inner silence, you cannot hear the voice of that divine essence which is the source of all life. If you do not look within you cannot see the sacred fire that burns within you that is your life. It does not matter what temple or church your worship in, nor what sacred text you study. Without the inner understanding that can only be provided by the spirit of God in you, none of it has any true meaning or value.. "

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"Practice forgiveness and you'll free your spirit to live positively each day, unburdened by the past mistakes of others."

From The Daily Motivator


More to follow ...


Truth

We have noticed that you pretend to value truth on this planet. Some spend a lifetime seeking it. Your legal systems demand it, and you can be sued if your business doesn't practise it. Your philosophers define it, your scientists measure it, your religions exalt it, and you all fight over it. Meanwhile, all you are doing is paying global lip service to it. There is an excellent reason for all this: You have no idea what truth really is.

How the obvious has escaped you is a tedious story. The abridged version of it amounts to this: You embraced fear. After that unholy act, it has been downhill ever since. Fear is the first lie, the lie that tells you that you are separated from the whole. Once it has been embraced, you are incapable of ever telling the truth under any circumstances without blowing the game.

Truth, by its nature, is the light. Fear cannot, by its nature, be in the light without dying. It becomes a simple matter of self interest. Fear has owned this planet, its people, and their systems for a long time. It does not wish to give up the property it has acquired because it is a parasitic life form which cannot live separated from your life forces.

The truth is, you are the truth. It is not external to you, as you have been led to believe. For that reason, it is ludicrous to set out on a spiritual journey in search of it. It is likewise ridiculous to punish those who do not practice it when almost nobody on this planet does. As for philosophising over it, how can you when you wouldn't recognise it if it ran over you in the street? Meanwhile, measuring it is done in your attempt to dominate it, leading you further into the lie that it lives outside of you like an enemy that must be controlled. To exalt it is also to see it as separate. And fighting over it is so absurd as to not deserve our comment at all.

The totality of your clinically insane behaviour surrounding truth has been cleverly manipulated by fearin its attempts to keep your eyes off the truth. In this manner, fear was able to continue uninterrupted and undetected in its process of eating you alive. But don't worry - ther is a cure. All you need do is awaken to the fact that you are the truth. As the light comes on, the parasite will die, leaving you joyously able to reclaim command.

- ET101: The cosmic instruction manual for planetary evolution by Zoev Jho (aka Diana Luppi)

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Thanks for sharing your experiences with those of the Bahai faith. My only experiences with organised religion were of the 'fire & brimstone' variety which put me off the whole business for some considerable time. You'd like to think any genuine faith would turn out people who are (in your words) 'absolute jewels -- loving, giving, humble and kind' ... you'd like to think that would be the case with all paths ...

I enjoy reading your posts - if we were all of the 'same' mind this really would be a cult. :) Thankfully it's a LONG way from being that. Thanks for sharing your perspective on Gary Zukav's thoughts about that which 'irritates' us. To me, the words ring true in the sense that the 'flaws' I tend to most notice in others are precisely those aspects of myself I need to work on. :) Quite apart from the fact that while we're focusing on the 'flaws' we're not focusing on seeing ourselves or the 'other' as divine. Another manifestation of 'Seek and ye shall find' - you'll see the flaws if you look for them or you'll see the divinity if you look for it.

I'm pleased you manage to find some nuggets in my posts - would you mind telling me where they are? :) As a wise man once said, "Fifty percent of what I say is complete nonsense and you can disregard the other fifty percent". As for my identity, my full name is Anne O'Nymous but what's in a name? As Deepak says, 'some thoughts are experienced more personally - I call them mine'. There are many Zen artists who make a point of NOT signing their work as a reminder of how fleeting and illusory the concept of 'ownership' really is. Deepak is on a similar tram when he advises that nothing should be clung to as 'me' or 'mine', which is kind of tough to do in the hurly-burly of the modern world. :)

Speaking of thoughts, I recently read some stuff by Bruce Moen about the 'afterlife' -

'To expand one's awareness of what's possible, there are places to learn and open one's imagination beyond its old limitations. There's a place that holds everything ever thought of or know by any human being who has ever lived. This Education Centre is open to anyone desiring to study there, and access to this information is limited only by the breadth of one's desire to know and one's willingness to explore'

Sounds like a souped-up version of the Internet! I have often wondered what happens to all of my thoughts after I have stopped thinking them. I wonder how much benefit 99% of my past thoughts would be to anyone else but it's nice to know they are being stored away for 'posterity', I suppose. :)

Bruce has an interesting website called 'Afterlife Knowledge', here's a little sample -

Bruce Moen is a lot like you. He's never had a near-death experience, nor does he claim any special psychic gift or ability. Yet, he's learned to do some special things. He has freed "lost souls" from their isolated, sometimes terrifying post-death existence; helped them regain freewill choice over their own destiny; brought comfort to those left behind when a loved one dies; moved earthbound ghosts to their place in the Afterlife; verifiably explored nonphysical human consciousness and other realities.

Afterlife exploration has profoundly changed his life. It's taught him what Love is and shown him the purpose of his life. Through this Web site and his books, Bruce is sharing a continuing journey of discovery that began in 1992 at The Monroe Institute. It was there he first learned to explore the Afterlife during Lifeline, a program developed by noted out-of-body traveler and author, Robert A. Monroe.

After several years of perfecting the perceptual skills required, it's his hope others can use what he's learned to develop them more quickly. "The most important thing I discovered," Bruce says, "is that human beings with curiosity can learn to explore the Afterlife and find the truth for themselves."

'I'm just an ordinary human being whose curiosity about human existence beyond the physical world led to extraordinary experience. Throughout history we've wondered if there's a life after death. Along the way, our religions and philosophies offered beliefs and opinions to answer our question. However, their answers conflict with each other so deeply, it's difficult to know if finding the truth within them is possible.

In 1992 I began a journey of discovery that taught me how to explore beyond our physical world. At first, my beliefs blocked acceptance of my experience as real. Continued exploration brought undeniable proof of the Afterlife's existence. This Web site is dedicated to sharing what I've found hoping it will reduce fear and uncertainty about death and help you increase your Afterlife Knowledge. It's not my intent to change your beliefs about the Afterlife. Only your personal direct experience should do that. Perhaps what I've written will ring true with your experience. Maybe just knowing one other person claims it's possible to know the truth about the Afterlife will encourage you to begin your own journey of discovery.'

Bruce's site is ... www.afterlife-knowledge.com

I've also been exploring the links from Ulisse's 'Syntropy' site - much thought-provoking stuff too. Some of the Forum regulars might be interested in the Reluctant Messenger site, which attempts the (seemingly) impossible task of reconciling all the major religions AND science into a coherent 'whole' through syntropy.
www.reluctant-messenger.com/syntropy.htm

Thanks again, Ulisse, and I'm enjoying reading your book as well. :)

Namaste

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Seeing as you are such a fan of Gary Zukav ... I was watching a video of one of his TV appearances last night. He speaks a lot about anger as he used to be a 'very angry young man'. For what it's worth, here's a little of what he said:

"Behind anger can be sadness ... or grief ... or disapointment - it's always disappointment that the world is not the way you want it to be and that is an excruciatingly painful experience and it's easier to be angry than it is to face the intense pain of the world not being the way you want it to be ... " He calls this experience 'rage against the universe' and I know just what he's talking about ...

... {a bit later} "Whenever you are angry, in that moment, stop and become aware of what you are feeling. Remind yourself that the thoughts you are thinking and the feelings you are feeling are coming from a part of yourself that is frightened. Remind yourself of that in that moment."

"What do you mean by frightened?"

"Scared." (audience laughs)

"Yes, I know frightened means scared ... but scared of what?"

"Of being alive ... scared that you don't have a place on the earth that is really yours ... frightened that people won't accept you ... frightened that you can't live up to the expectations of others ... and your own expectations ... frightened that you're not good enough ... frightened that you will never find the love in your life that you're so desperately seeking ... if you stop and become aware of what you're doing ... and before you start to analyse what you're afraid of, ask yourself if you want your decisions to be made by a part of you that is frightened ... The next step is to ak yourself what you would do in this situation if you were a wise and a compassionate person ... that's for you to decide - nobody can make that choice for you ... and it may be that you know what a wise choice would be but you decide not to make that choice and there is no shame in that ... there is learning potential in every decision that you make ... in this way you can experiement with your own life ... " {I could transcribe heaps more but that might be enough for today}


Good Morning Folks,

After digging through the archives of the forum, here's my distilled version of the wisdom that has been posted here ...

[  Make no comparisons

[  Don't take anything personally

[  All judgements are based in some way on comparisons

[  Consciously wipe the following words from your vocabulary - stranger, enemy, weird, normal, should, blame and probably a few others

[  If your compassion does not include yourself it is incomplete

[  Let go

[  Ask yourself if it is worth 'losing your cool' in hwatever situation you find yourself in

[  Smile

[  Nobody can insult you without your consent
{You could replace 'insult' with 'upset', 'anger', 'make you unhappy' etc etc ...

[  'There are really only two ways to live: as if everything is a miracle, or as if nothing is.'
- Einstein (??)

[  Endeavour to Love everyone especially those whose views or behaviours you don't share

[  Go with the flow

[  Remind yourself to be grateful as this always brings you to a place of peace (or it should)

[  Practice forgiveness - it's the best gift you can give yourself

[  Reality (and your experience of it) is as bounded or unbounded as you believe it to be

[  Seek and ye shall find

[  Laugh - Don't take your self or anyone else's self too seriously

[  Yes, if you feel the need to insult or ridicule or diminish those you disagree with, you've already lost far more than just the argument before it even begins ... and I know this from direct painful personal experience ... :)

J 


Walking to the shops the other day, a few thoughts crossed my mind ...

I really do see that as the toughest attachment most people have - in fact most never consider 'letting go' of it ... namely, the attachment to the approval or disapproval of others and the attachment to approving or disapproving of others ... in the end, this attachment is like ANY attachment - it HOLDS you back and keeps you from being truly free ... some people live many lifetimes before coming to this conclusion and I have just handed it to you on a plate - are'nt I nice ...

I guess that's what happens when you pursue a 'normal' lifestyle - you get so good at pretending and so accustomed to all the pretending that you may start to believe the pretending is real ... this is when the universe will usually throw you a curve ball to wake you up ... :)

A lot of what people believe is 'natural' is not natural at all. For example, if you were raised in a community where everyone hated all blacks then you would almost certainly come to believe that hating blacks is perfectly natural ... until you encounter a different point of view ...

As long as you indulge in blame (and let's face it, blame is always an indulgence) of any kind you'll never get anywhere. Blame makes you a victim. As long as you assign any blame to any external person or source (including God) then you will stagnate in victimhood. Change only becomes possible once you take total responsibilty for the way you feel and react. Initially, this entails monitoring each and every thought and examining it closely to see if it contains even the seeds of blame. This is a tough thing to do at first but with practice it becomes automatic and second-nature ... (CWG?)

The first step is to be brutally honest. I mean if what you are currently doing is working just fine then why change a thing. There are however certain clear unmistakable signs that all is not working just fine. They include the experiences of anger, blame, worry, cynicism and a certain lack of enthusiasm, joy, spontaneity, forgiveness, gratitude and wonder ...

If pain persists, take three donuts and call me in the morning.


A few more tidbits ... no names mentioned as we are all 'one' .... :)

Nothing you have written expresses your frustration better than this statement, and I have great sympathy with your frustration. But the reason for your dilemma isn’t out here. It isn’t in the texts, it isn’t in the world, it isn’t in the lack of logic or reason, the reasons for your frustrations is the straight-jacket of "beliefs" you wear which limit your growth. Only you limit you.

I see this problem all the time, and unfortunately over the Internet highway it is even more frustrating to deal with because all I can offer is these words on a screen. The problem is that you, and millions upon millions like you hope to find the answer in those "words". You hope to discover enlightenment in "words that relate". You hope that your intellect and your mind will be able to sit there and use reason and logic and arrive at a point when you "get it" and are "awakened". But no one was ever enlightened by reading or listening to words. What they had to do was to put the content of those words, the instructions of those words into "practice". They need to "do" instead of to "read". And it really is not enough to just sit and meditate. To sit with eyes closed, contemplating your own thoughts as they randomly dance across your mind is not going to do it. There are ground rules which operate as in any active system. These ground rules include things like: not lying, not killing, not stealing, not having excitable thoughts, etc. Things which amount to the eightfold noble path and the five Buddhist precepts or in the case of Deepak’s interpretation, the Seven Spiritual Laws.

These are all measures which help create the fertile ground for Enlightenment. For Realisation. For the stilling of the mind which is the central and determining factor in "attaining". But as you have said yourself, "it does take some effort".

It is the attempts to make the appropriate effort which is what lets down the ordinary guy. The ordinary man or woman who wishes for things to change must initiate some change herself before any change can actually happen. You can’t just sit and hope and you can’t just carry on as normal in the hope that IT will happen. IT will happen, eventually, but by then you’ll already be dead. But if you are already constrained by a lot of beliefs which prevent you from moving, then it becomes impossible.

Essentially, "it does take some effort" to succeed in stilling the mind to the point where words, images, sounds, music, movement and even the idea of Self have disappeared. There are several ways that this total stillness of the mind can occur, that I know of. And this does not include intelectualising, reasoning or philosophising.

A) In a "near-death" experience people will come to know the Divine through an "out of body experience". This experience is always transformative. The sense of bliss, ecstasy and love one feels in this experience is partnered with the sense of a great benevolent Entity offering deep reassurance. Sometimes, but rarely, a message may be relayed to the subject.

B) Through some enormous personal trauma or some deep dark depression a person will experience what has come to be known as "The Dark Night of The Soul". This experience is often very vivid and powerful. Having reached the very bottom of despair the mind finally comes to a dead end, without any further solutions and a breakthrough happens which can often manifest into a breakdown. The mental homes are full of such cases where someone has gone through the gap in a moment of despair but still conscious and returned from the experience believing they are Christ, Jesus, God, etc., Through treatment and medication they are eventually convinced by the doctors that they were deluded and had experienced a psychotic event.

C) Epilepsy. Many epileptics report similar experiences to those reported by "near-death" victims of a blissful unity etc., One does not have to be an epileptic to have an epileptic seizure. Sometimes isolated attacks can occur just once in a lifetime as a result of stress, lack of sleep, exhaustion etc. In such instances the mind again comes to a complete stop and for just a few minutes the subject may experience God in this gap, but again this remains an unconscious experience. It just happens. I know a friend of a friend who occasionally has quite mild seizures which can happen in mid sentence during a conversation and he just sort of goes somewhere else for a minute or two and then seems to return.

D) Meditation. This is the act of consciously bringing the mind to a complete standstill. However, achieving it is no easy task otherwise the world would be full of enlightened beings. It requires many aspects of the psyche to be harmonised. Aspects which are highlighted in Buddhist and Spiritual teachings. It requires a certain quality of "doing" without doing. These things are beyond western language which is why so much Buddhist language is used because they have made words for these experiences. By achieving through meditation something much more powerful happens. Since this Way involves conscious volition, one is able to gain a great deal more information and wisdom from the experience in what I can only describe as a cosmic download. Which brings us neatly to the question "is man a machine"? Afterall this was essentially Descartes line of reason, but it has been described in quite different ways by Gurdjieff and if you’d read the rest of that Skeptical link you posted you would have gained some perspective of his ideas:

Gurdjieff was hardly the only spiritual thinker to anticipate what seems at first to be a uniquely modern, technological deconstruction of the self. Buddhist psychology also holds that there is no core essence, no atman, no singular "I." Instead, traditional Buddhists divide the self into a number of "heaps" (skandas) that are composed of a shifting array of perceptions, judgements, mental categories, thoughts, and awareness. The material in these heaps is constantly shifting around, pushed and pulled by habit, desire, and the constantly changing causes and conditions of the world. Behind this ceaseless activity lurks no fixed platonic forms or eternal souls, but only the empty flux of constant change.

Because this groundless flow terrifies us, Buddhist shrinks reasoned, we build castles out of the shifting sands of consciousness, and proclaim them stable, real and eternal. Within our minds, we reify an essential self, whose inability to respond spontaneously to the flux of things, or to recognize the emptiness in its heart, helps generate the delusions and sufferings of samsara. Indeed, Gurdjieff sounds a bit like a dour Buddhist when he says that "to awaken means to realize one's nothingness, that is to realize one's complete and absolute mechanicalness and one's complete and absolute helplessness."

However, even this depressing analysis contains the seed of hope, a seed that Gurdjieff believed lay in our very capacity for realization and awareness. By paying attention to our own mechanical routines, we cease to identify with them, and this de-identification shifts our attention towards the higher "I" that observes its own process and directs, as best it can, its own inner growth. This transcendence-through-feedback separates the essential self from the automatism of the machine, and creates a crystal of consciousness capable not only of genuinely directing its own activity, but of actually surviving death.

I interpret our mechanicalness as being tied into that aspect of us which has no free Will, which you highlighted rather well in answer to my question on Free Will. I thought that was the answer I most agreed with. Because of our conditioning and all the other events in our life that determine what we do and who we are, we tend to have next to no free will. We tend to be buffeted here and there by random as well as mechanically controlled systems such as economics, political order, theological beliefs, work, etc. From the moment the alarm goes off in the morning we fall into a mechanical routine like a well oiled engine. It is through the success of breaking out of these mechanical habits and especially the mechanical thought patterns which occupy our minds that we eventually find true freedom, and to do that one has to just "let-go". The very gestalt of reason as we know it must be discarded before true reason and right perception can ever be realized.

...but they see your arguments and beliefs as valid and logical. Difficult to argue against. You have obviously given the matter a great deal of thought. In fact, I would go so far as to say that probably eighty percent of the people who regularly read here will find it difficult to find much fault in your reasoning. In your beliefs. In your opinions.

If you were to take your arguments on the street, to the man in the street, religionists aside, I think you would get more than 90% agreement. Possibly as high as 99%. Ninety nine percent of Westerners who are non religious may agree with you. Even amongst the religious, the Christians and Jews and Moslems of Western society I am sure you would find the majority agreeing with your reasoning but, as a matter of faith, those groups would choose to believe that there is more to it than you are saying, and as a matter of faith choose to believe what their religion and their elders and the State tells them. This would be what their own "exclusive" majority tends to "believe", i.e. that God of the Bible and myth which you referred to in answer to my questions. Those who live with man made morality would agree with your logic but, as someone pointed out they would "believe something for which there is little more than faith to support the belief".

I fully accept that my own views and those of others here, tend to be minority views. So much so that I would place us in the one percentile group when placed against prevailing world "opinions".

Although you say Deepak Chopra speaks to a large audience I would challenge this. I would say that Deepak is most popular in America and specifically in California. That even there he appeals really only to a small group. I don’t know what the current U.S population is, but judging by his publication figures I would imagine that he appeals to less than a million people, most of them well-read intellectual types. You can tell me what percentage that is, if you like. His wide appeal in the U.S, thus far, I put down to his use of the words "affluence" and "success" which appeal to the capitalist American psyche. Although his books are published internationally it is very rare in Europe or Asia to come across anyone who knows who he is and even more unusual to find anyone familiar with his work. I am speaking only of my own experience of course and I am speaking of course of the man in the street, friends and family. Amongst my own friends only a handful are familiar with his writings and these are essentially people that Grace and I have introduced to Chopra’s writings because they were in need of "self-help" and because we are fans and supporters of his broad message. He is quite well known in India, of course, simply by virtue of being an Indian success story himself.

My point is, Deepak Chopra’s views are essentially my views and those of many others here. We may vary in some interpretations and understandings since between us we have different sources and influences other than Chopra, such as Rajneesh, Ouspensky, Gurdjieff, Crowley, Jung, Buddha, Redfield, Niel Donald Walsh, Hazrat Inayat Khan, Ken Wilbur, Rumi, Krishnamurti, Stuart Wilde, Michael Talbot, Ram dass, Yogananda or Richard Bach, to name a few notable ones. But these views remain, essentially, a minority view even though recent years has seen a real resurgence in their ideas and teachings. These guys are essentially the guys you seem to refer to as "masters" when you say,

"Unfortunately, the only evidence we seem to have for soul or spirit or mind is what "masters" tell us."

For me, listening to these words and beliefs, what I hear is a man who seems to make the world of the "masters" and that of "us" and "we" (meaning your own), for me you seem to make these worlds mutually exclusive in your mind. You limit yourself a great deal in the first place by saying all you can do is read about IT. That the idea of "realizing" IT is not possible for mere mortals like "us". In a sense, the only way you can give these ideas of Chopra and the other mystic’s any validity whatsoever is to kind of intellectually "canonise" the messengers, thereby excluding yourself and anyone you know on a personal level from actually "knowing" Spiritual Truths. Do you see what I’m saying?

You are excluding the possibility that these "masters" were just ordinary men who "mastered". You prefer to believe they are exceptional men, divinely chosen. Special. Much as the religious man thinks of Jesus or Mohammed.

Essentially, I find that the difference between my world and your world is that yours is an exclusive world limited to the "prevailing opinions" the "prevailing beliefs" with which you have been conditioned. Whereas my world, the world of Chopra is inclusive. All the ideas you so eloquently put forward are already included in our world view. We were not born in a vacuum of Spirituality, but rather, as has been testified by others and myself, we too come from your world and from your world view. We were once skeptical non-believers, cynical, angry, logical, scientific, educated, intelligent people who used to think just like you. I’m not quite sure how many times this particular fact has been relayed to you, but you always dismiss it and then pour scorn on our claims that we now "know" differently. We don’t exclude science and reason. Far from it, we include it. Chris lives and works within science. We champion it. We use it to demonstrate spiritual truths, where possible.

Your world is limited rather than expansive. You believe things like :

"Value your own opinions. Value them enough to reject any others that don't make sense to you, or that disappoint you. You are the owner of your thoughts and opinions. Don't sell them to another, no matter how persuasive that other's appeals may be."

I have to ask, where is there room in this declaration for learning, for growth? There is none. You are proudly declaring, ‘believe only what you already know and nothing more’! The unknown remains unknown. And you don’t even own those opinions. They were largely handed to you through the education systems, through the media systems, through your parents beliefs and through books. That’s why they are essentially "beliefs" on which you have formed "opinions". I have already given you definitions for both the word "belief" and "opinion" and they amount to convictions without "proof".

Essentially, the difference between the way you think and the way a religious zealot thinks is indiscernible. You just have different "belief systems" both of which are essentially based on prevailing opinions and cultural conditioning. That, essentially boils down to one definition of "us" when he writes:

"When an intelligent person believes something for which there is little more than faith to support the belief, what else can you say except that the person believes simply because he or she wants to? "

Not only is there no more room in your cup, but you cling to the contents of your cup, guarding your cup for fear that this is all the sustenance in the world. The "master" on the other hand has emptied his cup. He has given up his "beliefs". He is always open for more, and he is prepared for his ideas to change as things change. This is what X meant when he said so eloquently, "it’s all B/S!" And one of the Anonymous ones asked, "even the things that you are saying?" And Terry replied "yes!" It is like the Zen proverb where a man approaches the Zen Master and says, "What is Truth?" and the Master replies "Truth is a Lotus flower". The man irritably says, "What nonsense." And the Master says "Oh, isn’t it?" When one is capable, not just conceptually, but in a very real sense to accept that everything he believes is B/S, then one is really able to enter the mind set of "let-go". One can let go their beliefs. Then the cup is emptied. Only on the foundations of "let-go" are we able to go into "no-mind" and discover what it is to simply "be". To be a human "being". In simply "being" we stop projecting our limitations on reality and are finally free to realize the "unknown".

Regarding the Soul, while your dictionary carries a different definition, I’m sure you would agree from your knowledge of world religions that Christianity, Islam and Judaism believe in a Soul which survives death and goes to Heaven or Hell, while Buddhists and Hindus believe in a "Higher Self" which translates pretty much to the Western and Islamic Soul, with the difference being that the Higher Self survives death to be reborn or reincarnated. So 90% of world religious belief systems believes the Soul survives death. In any case, I hope that you don’t mind if we work with this more common definition of the Soul which you have already indicated you do not believe in. I would like to begin with this statement of yours:

"Personal persuasions, perhaps based on reading what others have thought, are our only ways of knowing the meaning and essence of soul and spirit and mind. It's like we all have a notion of these things, and hope there is some validity to them, but we haven't been able to verify their existence beyond the philosophical arena."

I have some sympathy with this sentiment in that the paragraph I have quoted and most of your posts used the "we" and the "us" in an inclusive way which seemed to speak for all of us. I think that there are many here who had difficuly with this way of expressing ideas which were essentially your own personal opinions. I do not believe they represented the beliefs of myself, and others. (If I left anyone out I hope they can speak for themselves.) However, they were presented with some authority and conviction, the same kind of conviction which advised a newcomer to the Forum whom had entered seeking advice :

"Value your own opinions. Value them enough to reject any others that don't make sense to you, or that disappoint you. You are the owner of your thoughts and opinions. Don't sell them to another, no matter how persuasive that other's appeals may be."

I think since you are essentially a self confessed skeptic of spirituality and especially Deepak Chopra, that you should question your qualification or authority to be his spokesman, as in the advice you gave to the newcomer, or our spokesman when it comes to knowledge or understanding of Spirit, Soul and God. I hope you will give that some consideration. I think if someone visited a church for councel they would not expect to receive it from an atheist. I think if you are going to give that kind of advice you might consider qualifying the advice by declaring in the first place that you are a non-believer. IMO.


I realise you may have had your tongue in your cheek when you said you find the mirror analogy irritating (as the post was about 'people who irritate us') I think the key word is 'find'. Actually, most people tend not to say "I find that irritating" - they will generally say "That is irritating" which implies that is the only possible reaction and the only possible way it can be experienced.

You may likewise find the old adage 'Seek and ye shall find' to be similarly irritating. I find it is a true reflection of the human experience. If you go around looking for reasons to be irritated you will surely find them. Likewise, if you go around looking for reasons to be inspired ... or filled with wonder ... or love ... or cynicism ... or gratitude or forgiveness ... or whatever :)

As for the phrase 'beyond speculation', I take that to mean that speculation can only take you so far. Like X said, there is a limit to how far concepts, ideas, intellectualising can take you. The trouble is we have a culture and environment which tends to elevate the intellect above all else. Our education system values those with intellectual dexterity. Not that there is anything inherently 'wrong' with that but I do feel it is possible to be too clever for your own good. :)

There is a vast difference between being clever and beingwise and I know which I'd prefer. With such a focus, we want to wrap our intellect around everything but the mind boggles past a certain point. I mean how can one expect to wrap one's intellect around the infinite. :)

Reading through the archives of this place, one of my favourite quotes is "All you need is a quiet mind". Yet, as X pointed out, this is far from easy to do. Otherwise the world would be full of enlightened beings which it plainly is not. It is however chock full of potential enlightened beings. To me, that is the true message of all 'masters' - not to place them on a pedestal but to realise that you possess equal potential as they do and eventually you will realise it. :)


More to follow ...


Late November, 2000 -

I see you are still talking about beliefs.

If you don't believe it, you won't see it.

Therein lies the problem.

This may at first glance seem a facetious statement, but it is quite serious. While the statement may seem a contradiction of "When you see it, you'll believe it", it is not. It is simply the polar opposite of the same dynamic. The same law. The Mystic tells you that you create your own reality. What you put your attention on will grow, and what you take your attention away from will fade. You make the choice and that is the only difference. The fact that you can make lots of internet links to back-up your view is not surprising since your view remains the majority view. The statistics on remissions and miracles? Again, not surprising since 99% of people believe like you and rely on medicine and hospitals etc. If you were to look at the same figures in light of the 1%, you would find startling evidence for Deepak's claims. But, you are not going to do that. You are simply going to look for more evidence to perpetuate your own beliefs. You just can't help it. Just scanning back, I think Dick asked something like, which is more reliable, someone who believes just because they choose to, or someone who uses reason and logic? Something like that. I scanned through pretty quickly.

I'd say, rely on neither. Instead, depend on your own personal experience. If you read something or hear something, or see something on t.v or in a film, question it. Investigate it. Test it for yourself, like the story of Edisson and the one hundred experiments. Not intellectually, but in practical ways. No one can tell you any different once you know for yourself. And if you don't yet know for certain, then just accept that. You don't know. The mystic has no interest in beliefs. He says "try it and see". That's how alchemy works. In the laboratory of life Miracles happen. The thing is, they are not miracles. They are manipulations of molecules, persuasion of particles through love and compassion. It is a science that modern science hasn't caught up with yet, like most things the mystic has talked of throughout the ages.

Question, occasionally, your own perceptions. The physical evidence reported by your five senses is not all that reliable. It is an interpretation of a limited field. Geoff makes a very good point when he talks about the frequencies of light which are not visible to the eye. The frequencies of sound which are not audible to the ear. Our perceptions used to tell us the world is flat, but it turned out it isn't. Our perceptions tell us that the world is standing still and that we move about on it. Yet the world is spinning at dizzying speeds and hurtling through space at thousands of miles per hour. Our perception tell us that we are solid beings, separate and individual, yet if examined by an alien we would be found to be 90% bacteria. Examined further under super microscopes, we would be found to be hollow, made up of spaces.

One of my favorite quotes from Richard Bach, "Argue for your limitations, and sure enough they are yours". Trusting the limitations of your senses is to live a delusion. Right now entire worlds of strange and sophisticated species are living in your hair, on your skin, under your feet, but you cannot see them. If you had been told about them a hundred years ago you wouldn't believe it. You wouldn't believe it until you saw it. But it's been like that all the time. It is only your world view which has expanded. You were oblivious of their existence. And when you look deeply into the structure of matter, you see it isn't solid. When you look deeply into the fabric of your own brain you will discover you cannot be there. People experiencing out of body events or near death events recall vivid memories of being out of their bodies. One could say that they dreamed them, or hallucinated, but for that to happen there would have to be brain activity, yet many of these experiences happen when the brain activity normally associated with dreams and hallucinations is entirely absent. The patient experiences lucid and vivid imaginings while in a coma.

Two and half thousand years ago Buddha already knew these things when in his great discourse to Rahula, he said of all the elements, internal or external, that make up man and the world, including the space element: "This is not mine, this I am not, this is not my self. When one sees it thus as it actually is with proper wisdom, one becomes disenchanted with the elements and makes the mind dispassionate towards the elements... ...develop meditation on loving-kindness; for when you develop meditation on loving-kindness, any ill will be abandoned."

Two and a half thousand years ago, Buddha knew! And this is only a small snippet of his discourse which is quite brilliant if "practiced" rather than simply read.

Why put so much faith in your five senses, in your ordinary perceptions when these perceptions are shown to be so erroneous, inadequate and unreliable? You seem to be very good at questioning people who offer their personal experience, doubting their voracity, yet how thorough are you at questioning your own "beliefs" which are based on stuff you read in books or saw on t.v and accepted simply because it fitted your limited perceptions in the first place.

Spirituality is essentially and literally about love and like love. The more love you give, the more you receive. The more loving you are the more love you experience. The more loveless you are, the less love enters your life. It is one of the paradoxes of the universe and a frustrating one, but the more you believe in these things, the more they manifest. That has been my experience. The problem we have is wanting to believe, because our conditioning causes us to think in a certain way. It's not so much what we think that matters, it's the way we think. Fear is another thing which gets in the way. A fear which has been cultivated by religions in the form of guilt and punishment for thousands of years for the very purpose of stifling your personal spiritual growth. This fear you have to overcome. Ashleigh Brilliant says,

I want to be closer to God
But I want God to make the first approach

Therein lies another problem.


... you don't strike me as looking to be moved by other perspectives :-)I suppose that most of us here are not in fact looking to be swayed in our understandings either. I'm not. Personally I am here looking for input and to hear how others perceive things to help in forming my own world view---so I guess we're even ;-) The reason I say that you don't seem open to new views is based on my perception of you which is that you are open only to the standard approach to understanding things, the rational approach...and the rational approach has many many merits. But spirituality, by its very nature is somewhat "irrational" or perhaps beyond reason--it is about things unseen and largely immeasurable (although one might measure certain "feats") But these feats are not the essence of spirituality. It's like love in many ways--which is often not rational, is unseen, immeasurable by any concrete means and which may have unpredictable results. it's like other things that are real but nevertheless beyond the scope of examination by science--honor, wonder, respect etc...and just as with spirituality, many "use" these things in dishonest ways, making claims for selfish reasons etc...but it does not negate the reality of these "things" just as people who claim they can cure your cancer for money and without real ability don't negate those who actually can and do heal people of various ails out of love and a sense of service.

Anyway, I apologize if my perecption of you is off or is offensive somehow (may be my ignorance showing ;-))...but there it is...I would sincerely be interested in what topics you might find interesting or worthy of discussion...you know you really might like Ken Wilber--he does not negate the significance of the physical realm and is very "logical" in his understanding/explanation of things--though he is a mystic--big drawback, eh? He even pokes fun at some New Age thought :-) I've only read his "A Brief History of Everything"--but I thought it was good.

Good nightall!


SynchroDestiny: The Power of Intention - Part 2

We've seen how intention is a powerful force in nature. We've also talked a bit about how we can become separated or alienated from that larger intention as a result of our own ego driven desires and needs. Now let's focus on what you do to realign yourself with the cosmic intent - - what you can do to create harmony between what you intend and what the universe intends for you. Once that harmony is created, once that congruence is brought into being, you'll find that synchronicity becomes a greater presence in your life. And this, of course, is one of the strongest indicators of spiritual transformation.

As a precondition for any intention on your part, I would suggest nurturing a viewpoint of simple gratitude. Just start with a feeling of being grateful - - so even before you have the intent you say: I acknowledge my gratitude. I give thanks for my place in the cosmos and for the opportunity I have to further the destiny we all share.

So the first requirement of positive intent is acknowledging gratitude, and the second thing is to abandon grievance of all kinds. Grievance comes from the ego. There's a beautiful passage in The Course of Miracles, which is a very interesting set of books that you may already be familiar with. The passage says, "Every decision I make is a choice between a grievance and a miracle." Try to remember that. Every decision you make is a choice between a grievance and a miracle. So the first thing is to acknowledge gratitude before you start any intent. And the second thing is to abandon all grievances.

Again, this is an area of concern that's unique to us as human beings. Animals don't have any problems with grudges or grievances. If you hurt an animal it will learn from that experience, and it will avoid you in order to avoid being hurt again in the future. But the animal doesn't really have a grievance inside it. It doesn't say to itself, "This person is violent, so I'm going to get revenge." That really doesn't happen in the natural world. An animal that's been hurt may try to kill you the next time you're around, but this is a survival response in the interest of the whole species.

In India, it's very well known that if you kill a cobra, all the other snakes in the family become very vicious. If you're anywhere in the vicinity of those snakes you have to be very careful, because the survival response of the species is triggered when their number is diminished. But there's no emotional need on the part of the animals to get back at you. They're not plotting it or thinking about it all day. It's a survival thing. Nature's intent is the survival of the species, and the individuals are simply channeling that intention.

You don't have to be a scientist to understand these issues. People who spend time in natural environments are very acutely aware of intention as a factor in behavior. Hunters know this extremely well. A hunter can walk through the forest with a loaded gun, but unless he has the intention of firing the gun there's no evasive response on the part of the animals in the area. But as soon as there's an active intent to hunt and fire the gun, then the animals' behavior changes. They sense the intention, and they understand it.

When I was growing up in India we had a neighbor who had a chicken farm. Every Sunday they would have a barbecue and the neighbor would come out and start looking over the chickens. Maybe he'd think, "Oh, how about that nice plump black one there" - - and as soon as that thought entered his mind the black hen would run. And all the other hens would get out of the way. Even they would know what the intention was. In any case, it's only among human beings that intention is encumbered by all sorts of emotional baggage - - and that's what you want to get rid of in order to create a pure intention. Abandon all emotional baggage, but the most important aspect of this is getting rid of grievances. Getting rid of ego driven static.

Your intention should be in timeless awareness. There should be no ego in the way. Pure intention should be completely natural and effortless. No straining, because if you strain it's not going to happen. In nature there's no strain. It's effortless spontaneity. When the pigeon is flying back to it's loft in England, it isn't saying, "How do I get there? When am I going to get there? What if I don't get there, or what if another pigeon gets there before me?" It just flies. It just goes where it wants to go. There's no strain. It's effortless and spontaneous. It's also a kind of surrender to the larger intention that transcends the individual identity. We have to learn to say, "It's not just happening in here inside me. It's also happening out there in the larger environment which is expressing itself through me." That's an inner attitude of surrender.

The Chopra Center for Well Being Staff


A few meditation links:

Meditation Handbook

The Everyday Meditator

More Osho meditations

William Brown's Page has some photos & other neat stuff like the quote that 'meditation is the answer to all the questions you have ever asked' ...  

Update Feb 2006 -

Read this carefully

Can meditation be dangerous

More on the theme of schizophrenia & meditation - click

Crazy wisdom

Dynamic meditation

Facets of Metta

Beyond prayer & meditation

Meditation

Unified chakra meditation

Tonglen meditation

Ditto - using adversity 2 wake up

Meditation therapy

Types of meditation

Daily meditation

Truth & Zen

Meditation instruction

Do you have a soul

A few more

Meditation destroys everything

The secret revealed

108 techniques

Meditation with angels

For beginners

Meditation sites

Meditative thoughts

Gibberish meditation

Meditation boot camp

Meditation project

Another handbook

How 2 meditate in a noisy environment

How 2 meditate

Dangers of meditation

Wild Mind site has a few tips

Mindfulness in plain English

More about meditation - click

What 2 do about wandering thoughts - click

Discussion of what is Zen?

Lovin kindness meditation

Meditation room

Potato chip meditation

Meditation boot camp

Another version of the tonglen meditation

Came from this search

The meditative mind

Meditation expert

More tips from Sakyong Mipham Rinpoche

Tibetan healing meditation

Books on mindfulness & meditation

More on meditation - click

Gibberish meditation from Osho

Even more meditation articles - click

Meditation is not enough

Still crazy after all these years

Sharon Salzberg's site

More on meditation

Are you ready for cosmic awareness?

Make your mind an ocean

What is love?

Taming the monkey mind

Dharma glimpses

Click & scroll down to 'When people start to meditate' :)

How will I know if I'm really meditating?

The problem of boredom

How 2 establish a daily practice

The tree of contemplative practices

Contemplative prayer

Mindfulness training

Buddhism & psychotherapy

The practice of meditation

Beliefnet has a few pages abt prayer & meditation

On wavering minds

The daily enlightenment

Benefits of long-term meditation

More from Shinzen young

Live mindfully

Books on meditation

Quotes about God - some excellent ones IMHO :)

Meditation and depression

Can meditation be fun?

Article on meditation - could add it 2 our lists :)

Photocharge meditation

End of update :)

Snow in Summer: Mind, Mindfulness & Meditation

Interesting Q and A on meditation

Meditate deeper than a zen monk :)

How meditation heals

Meditation made easy by Larry Platt

Inner smile meditation

THIS is the page I was looking 4

The Nine Cycles Meditation

Some tips on meditation & music

Calm centre

Another zen site with some excellent tips & animations :)

Some meditations

How 2 meditate

Meditation therapy

Another page on meditation

Another handbook

Psychotherapy, Meditation & Spirituality

Active meditations

Some tips from Lama Surya Das

Java tunnel meditation - some interesting search results

"Meditation is the single most effective means for transcending the binding, restrictive sense of separateness and isolation which imprison the human consciousness and render it futile."
- click here for more

Three Minute Meditation

The Neurology of Spritual Experiences

Meditation Chambres

www.brain-mind.com

Perceptions of Spirit

Didjeridoo meditations

Magical Mind

Meditation: science of the inner

The chanting Gyuto monks

Their lastest CD is called 'The practice of contentment'

Beacons of light meditations

More mediatation links ... click

Tom Kenyon's site has some neat stuff too ...

A few more Chopra forum excerpts


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